There is a thin line that seperates Arrogance and Confidence. Arrogance is defined as "a feeling or an impression of superiority manifested in an overbearing manner or presumptuous claims." and Confidence is Defined as "a feeling or consciousness of one's powers or of reliance on one's circumstances". And it is interesting how people can view it differently. However I would like to thank the person who made the comment, and i appreciate ur views.

After many years of being the butt of pple's jokes, and being taunted from a young age i have learnt that People feast on another's lack of confidence and always take opportunity to put a person down to make up for their own lack of confidence and to make themselves more important and superior. However, when another has confidence or arrogance in themsleves, it seems harder to put a person down? I have learnt to accept myself for the way i have become and i learnt to take comments and critcism with a very constructive and very intersting light. Thank you very much, to who ever made that comment and i believe that everyone has their right to voice their own opinion on issues on a person, but however I was wondering why would people make an attack on another person's confidence in themsleves? Is it because they lack confidence themselves that they must reassure themsleves this way? I agree i'm fat, and I'm ugly to some, but I have to ability to accept my own weaknesses and strengths to accept myself and be happy being myself. So i ask the question on who ever made that comment, that can u do so?

I believe to be able to get along with people, to live with people and to love a person, one must be able to accept the person as a whole, and not pick only on the good aspect. My ex once told me before, that a person who lacks confidence is like a hollow shell, he or she may have the looks, but what else they have? Do they have the ability to live their life with the confidence that they can take on anything, the confidence to accept any criticism and any animosity in their life? ARe they aware of their full capabilities and making full use of it? Everyone has a choice, and i believe
that I too have a choice to be who i am, to be what i am and a choice to be who i wanna be with. You may think i am arrogant, and maybe i am, but however, i have the confidence to carry though my life and take in all the comments made to me.

However, i would like to question the person who commented on my arrogance and confidence is that if you have lived my life, walked in shoes and faced the things that i have face, would u have grown to be like me? would have be able to accept the comments and harsh critisim that I have faced through my 22 yrs? Would you be aware of your own ability to take on the whole world with the humour I find in life? Would You have reflected on how to better yourself and not wallow in self pity? Could You have face adversity and smile it all off, and take it in your stride? Do not compare me with things that may not make a difference in life, but Compare me, not by society's standards, but Life's standards. At the end of the day, it's your Self confidence and self esteem compared to mine, and if u can take on what the world has served you the way i have, then u shall have my utmost respect.