Well, I have been unable to work for 4 months and I have been like housewife-like during that period.. I am actually frustrated and I don't seem to be getting much appreciation.. I mean I know what is required of me that is to be done, but is it too much to ask for a little help?? I mean not from my husband.. No no.. The Roadster has been alright.. I mean I have been taking care of the house.. AND THE BROTHER IN LAW!!!.. I mean I have to cook, clean and do the laundry for him.. Never mind.. since I got nothing else to do during the four months, I'll do it.. But I have just started work and my boss has somewhat thrown me back into what I use to do, not slowly let me sink into it.. Literally thrown me into the deep end of it.. as we like to say it here.. I came back on Sunday, after working long shifts since last Wednesday, Only to find that he didn't throw away the rice in the rice cooker, that has since fermented.. and the clothes that has been hanging there since I can't remember when since I did the last laundry, are still there.. NEVER MIND!! I went to tell The Roadster.. who went to tell his brother.. and what happen?!! He called and tell me that he didn't know that there was rice in the rice cooker, cos he didn't see.. and besides, he never use the rice cooker.. Well DOES IT MEAN THAT EVEN THOUGH U DON'T USE IT, YOU DON'T HAVE TO CLEAN IT?! BASKET!! WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN EATING FOR THE LAST FOUR MONTHS? AIR!?.. Did the food magically appeared? I went to buy the food, even with a sprained ankle, I lugged all the food back from Tesco and cooked it for you.. And made sure you have food to it.. BASKET You are 25 years old.. I am not your GF or your Wife.. I am your Brother's Wife and furthermore, I have a hard time taking care of your brother already and Now I am back at work.. I don't have time to take care of you.. You make it sound that you are under alot of stress.. Well, Tough.. All of us are.. but you also need to pull your weight around.. You are pencil pusher, no offence there.. but I am working 40 hours a week.. AND ON WEEKENDS, while you spend all day on Sat and Sunday on your bloody PS3!! Get a bit of housework done, won't kill you right?! FIACK!!!!